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The Role of Body Posture in Deciphering Another Person’s Flirtatious Intent

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Correct body posture for flirtingDuring conversations, especially with someone you are attracted to, the position of your body can say as much as the words you use. Body posture can convey a lot more meaning, and you may not be aware of it. This body language movement is important in creating attraction because you are sending messages to the subconscious of the other person by the way you stand or sit. Not only that, having the right body posture will make you look more commanding, which can add to your appeal. As little kids, we were constantly reprimanded by our teachers whenever we slouch. They always make it a point to tell us that we need to stand or sit erect. It may be a tough task several years ago, but now, if you think about it, it was a very good life lesson. Yes, I consider it a life lesson because there are tons of things you can get from the simple act of sitting or standing straight. Here are some of the things you benefit from having the right posture:

You’re free from back pains

Clothes look good on you because they fit well

You will look more confident, hence attractive, to the opposite sex

You will be able to evoke an aura of dominance, which is what you need if you want others to do as you please

You will most definitely be able to use correct posture when flirting. By understanding what the different body positions actually means, you will be able to pinpoint which person you have the greatest chance of hooking up with. This should significantly reduce the times you are going to be rejected, thus saving you from a lot of humiliation. Here are some body positions and their respective meanings. Study them carefully because you are surely going to encounter them at some point. Head moving from side to side = denial Head moving up and down = assent Head at top = neutral or evaluation Head leaning on the side = shows interest Head leaning down = disapproval or a negative attitude Arms crossed = can either mean the person is insecure or simply defensive Legs crossed in the standard way = person is defensive Standing with legs crossed = can mean stress or discomfort Sitting with ankles crossed = person could be hiding a negative trait Most people would pay more attention to movements of the hands, feet, and facial expressions when deciphering what the other person really feels. They tend to neglect body posture, which is one very important aspect of non verbal communication. So the next time you enter a bar or go to any place in the hopes of hooking up with someone, pay very close attention to the way you stand. Someone could be looking closely—someone who you’ll have a tremendous amount of time with. Get free access to the most informative flirting and seduction tips to help you become a mean dating machine. Learn how to decipher body language quickly and accurately with expert tips form PUAs. You'll also get a FREE Ebook on flirting when you enter your name and email at the Sign Up box above.    
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Body Language Signs and Signals: Find Out if She’s Attracted to You

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Flirting Using Body Language Signs and SignalsLike most men, women likewise have the ability to show when they are attracted to the opposite sex. They have their own ways of conveying that message. However, some men are just too clueless that even when women whom they are interested in are already showing the body language signs, they seem to be oblivious. Again, same with the men, women can also be flirtatious. A woman standing across the room can make it obvious that she is indeed interested in you. Therefore, you better recognize these signs and signals so that you will not let a single opportunity pass. But then again, women can be a bit mysterious when delivering their flirting body signals. Expert men, though, are able to read through them but some of the conservative guys may find it hard to decipher. Also, you don’t want to suffer from getting slapped by a woman because you mistook her for flirting with you. Hence, it follows that you necessarily recognize the body language signs used by women to let you know they are attracted to you. The following are the signs and signals women use to bring across the message that they are interested in you. Signs and Signals with the Eyes Widely opened or dilated eyes mean that a woman is interested in you. They likewise bring across the message that she is sexually attracted to a man. Another sign that is exhibited through the eyes is when a woman stares at you more than the usual. Then, she glances away for a couple of seconds, looks down or looks on her sides, and then brings her stare back to you again. She will do this repeatedly and wear some naughty smile on her face. A woman’s excitement to see you is made noticeable as she raises her eyebrows unconsciously. Signs and Signals with the Lips By reading a woman’s lips, it will be easy to detect that she is fantasizing about you. Gestures with her lips include wetting her lips using her tongue or massaging them while softly biting, and then applying some lipstick. Signs and Signals with the Legs A woman gives the clue of being attracted to a guy when she crosses and then uncrosses her legs unconsciously. To make the attraction clearer, she massages or exposes her thighs as she crosses and uncrosses her legs. However, crossing her legs tightly for quite a long time means defensiveness. She may be attracted to you but not indicating any form of sexual encounters. Signs and Signals with the Knees The knees are good indicators too. When a woman’s knees are facing you, then, that means she is attracted to you. When the other parts of her body are turned towards you, then, she somehow has her entire attention only to you. But, if her knees are pointed towards a different direction, it means that she is disinterested and wants to get out of the present situation she is in. Signs and Signals with the Hands A very clear sign is when a woman repeatedly touches you. You will know when this is the kind of message she is trying to get across. Indeed, it is very fascinating to read body language signs and signals that women use to get your attention! Want to learn how to:
  • Seduce someone using only your body?
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How to Read Body Language

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Body Language SignsWhen you are in a face-to-face conversation with someone from the opposite sex, not everything that you say could mean entirely what you mean. There are times when the words you say don’t exactly mirror the message you are trying to convey. Spoken words will not suffice because actions do speak louder than words. You have to know how to read body language because if you want to succeed in meeting and dating. It is believed that body language and gestures convey far more information than your words do. Hidden messages or those that your subconscious is trying to say are always transmitted through your body movements since your conscious mind won’t express it. It is because of this that more people are looking at body language whenever they want to find out what a person truly feels. Most of us are now aware of the fact that spoken words can conceal real emotions, so we try to learn how to read body language. Reading body language signs will come very handy in social situations, most especially in dating. Usually in these instances, people are more hesitant to show their true emotions because they are not (most of them) interested in establishing long lasting relationships. With the exception of a certain number of people, those who are interested in dating are only after having fun and getting laid. If this is the case, then why be totally honest with the opposite sex, right? This, however, affects the interaction greatly because if you are approached by someone, whether they’re just after sex or a long-term relationship, you’d like for them to be open and truthful to you. And since you know that most people don’t really open up during the first encounter, you’re going to be on the lookout for signs that the person you’re talking to is giving you crap—body language signs. Learning how to read body language signs will play a very important role in your dating success. You have to be quick to spot those gestures and body movements and receptive to such signs because what you say and/or do following those signals can mean the difference between getting a date and going home alone. Here are few of the things you should be on the lookout for:

Be conscious of “the look”

Frequent eye contact will show interest. There are various meanings of how a person looks at you. When the look is focused on the center of the forehead and eyes, it means nothing but business. A gaze that is centered on the triangle between the eyes and mouth is considered social. When someone looks at the triangle formed by your eyes and chin and then trails to other parts of the body, it means there is some level of intimacy.

Watch out for the smile

It is the universal gesture. Smiling will convey a lot of messages. It can show strength of character, confidence, kindness, and trust. In almost any situation, a smile will indicate if a person likes you or not. You will be able to know if your attempt to create conversation with someone will be successful or not. When it comes to flirting, someone who smiles sheepishly at you could be an admirer.

The hands and manner of handshake

The hand rub denotes a positive expectation. The hands with fingers intertwined will mean that the person is trying to hide a negative attitude. Holding hands in the back wil indicate a high degree of safety.  Someone who positions the hand with palms down is trying to show some authority while having the palms up is trying to persuade someone. A firm handshake is something that most people who want to get things done do. One that is accompanied by a squeeze on the shoulder or arm means there is a certain level of sympathy and cooperation. This happens between people who share something in similar.

Posture while sitting (and/or standing)

Standing or sitting erect conveys confidence. When you slouch, it means you are intimidated by the person in front of you. If you sit on the edge of the chair with your back straight it could mean you are in a position of maximum attention but may also indicate subordination. Having your body and head forward will show discomfort and uncertainty.

Study the extremities

Crossing both arms and legs show a defensive and closed attitude. This means you are closing yourself to others, which is a negative body sign. Inter-crossing your feet, on the other hand, can show interest for someone. Learning how to read body language is crucial to one's dating success. You have to know when the things people are saying means otherwise. With the ability to interpret body signs, you'll never be in the dark when it comes to what the object of your desire is actually thinking. Get free access to the most informative flirting and seduction tips to help you become a mean dating machine. Learn how to decipher body language quickly and accurately with expert tips form PUAs. You'll also get a FREE Ebook on flirting when you enter your name and email at the Sign Up box above.
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Reading Facial Expressions—Things You Need to Know

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Facial expressionsBy now, you should have already known that non verbal communication comprises a big part of human interaction. Messages conveyed by a person need not necessarily be spoken because the way the body moves can communicate those meanings. One aspect of non verbal communication is facial expressions. Just like how you can send someone a message through your arm gestures, you can also say a lot by the way your face muscles move. It is very easy to learn how to read facial expressions of people. You can easily become skilled in deciphering what a certain individual is thinking based on the way they look. This is going to be a very valuable skill during face-to-face interactions because you will be able to determine how you are going to respond properly to a person you’re talking to. This can become very handy especially when trying to date someone. If you like a person and can’t tell if he or she feels the same way about you and you don’t want to look like a fool trying to maintain the conversation when the other person doesn’t really want to talk to you, you can look at his (or her) facial expressions. Based on how their face contorts, their eyebrows meet, and their lips move, you will be able to gauge if that person is interested in talking to you or not. Reading facial expressions and deciphering their meanings When talking to a person with a tight expression on the eyes, it could mean discomfort. That person may not like talking to you, hence the tight eye expression. This is usually a good indicator of distress. Indirect eye contact can mean a person is not telling you the entire truth. Their desire to hide something from you is manifested in a stare that they can’t hold. Similarly, a very intense and strong gaze could be a sign of deception. Studying facial expressions will require you to pay enough attention to eye contact. When it comes to reading facial expressions, it is crucial to know that while it can be difficult, you will need to practice it in a social situation because there are instances where a certain eye movement or facial expression can mean an entirely different thing. You should not judge someone based on their facial expression immediately. You’d have to take into consideration the setting and other factors. You need to be instinctive too. It takes practice and the right combination of instinct and careful analysis to learn how to read facial expressions accurately. Facial expressions can vary from people to people. Some are more subtle than others. You should also note that not all people respond the same way when it comes to non verbal communication. At times, interpreting facial expressions can be relative. When it comes to reading facial expressions, it’s safe to say that the eyes say a lot more when compared to other parts like the nose and lips. Emotions are far more expressed effectively through the eyes. This is the reason they’re called the windows to the soul. Want to learn how to:
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Improve Posture and Improve Your Chances with a Woman

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Improve PostureHave you been constantly told to improve posture? If you’re stubborn and still continue to slouch, then you could be unconsciously preventing yourself from being liked by women. Yes, there is a correlation between your stance and how other people perceive you. Your body posture has a lot to do with the responses you get from women you are trying to flirt with. You may not realize it but you hold the answer to the questions running through your mind. If you’re wondering why you’re having problems attracting women up to now, in spite of the fact that you’re not ugly, pungent, or stupid, then it could be due to the way you present yourself. Body language plays a big part in attraction and seduction. Even without the use of words, you can still make a woman attracted to you through your body posture and movement. Words are not required when flirting. Flirting body language is enough to make a person from the opposite sex. Words are not always necessary. You can make someone like you by using your hands, standing or sitting a certain way. Body posture also matters a lot in seduction. This is the reason you have to find ways to improve posture. It’s common for people to like or dislike somebody based on first impressions. Actually, this is a very good opportunity to create attraction. You stand a better chance at easily dating a woman when she finds you attractive in the first instance. And for you to do that, you have to show her—not tell her—that you are a confident man from the get-go. How do you do that? By having the right posture. A guy who’s standing erectly and appear to be relaxed have a better chance of getting noticed by women compared to someone who’s slouching. This is because having the proper posture will appear confident to the ladies. Girls like alpha males—men who are very secure and sure of themselves. If you’re nervous, unsure, and anxious, it will manifest in your posture. Women who look at you will not think about looking twice because you’re not worth their time. Just imagine if the tables were turned. If you spot a woman standing awkwardly, even though she’s not butt-ugly you will not think about hooking up with her because the way she carries herself isn’t attractive at all. So the next time you are told you slouch, work on standing and sitting straight. There are different posture exercises you can do to improve posture. Here’s one tip: don’t stand too erectly because you will look stiff. That would make you look like a robot, which comes off as weird to women. Relax and stand properly. Get free access to the most informative flirting and seduction tips to help you become a mean dating machine. Learn how to decipher body language quickly and accurately with expert tips form PUAs. You'll also get a FREE Ebook on flirting when you enter your name and email at the Sign Up box above.
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