Body language gestures are extremely important in any type of human interaction. It has been said that a conveyed message is 7% spoken language, 38% vocal characteristics like tone, etc., and 55% gestures and body movements.
You see how much of a role body movements play in conveying messages? This is practically the reason why a lot of people adapt their actions on other people’s body movements. This is very common in flirting and seduction.
Someone who wants to flirt with another person will take the time to study their body language gestures before doing anything to increase their chances of success.
The use of body language in flirting and other social interactions have been proven by different studies to be effective. Various professionals reveal that emotions and feelings that aren’t expressed in words (due to the failure to find the right words) are conveyed through physical movements.
Conversation isn’t only done through words. Bear in mind that when you are talking to someone, you aren’t only talking with your mouth, but with your body as well. An understanding of how each movement affects the way the other person feels and thinks is great because you will be able to adjust your behavior to get the response you expect.
The best example would be flirting and seduction.
People who want to flirt have a specific goal in mind: to get the other person attracted to them.
Surely you can’t tell another person to like you. That’s just wrong. You need to work on that through the way you move, the manner of your speech, and what you are saying. You will know if the person feels the same way through their body gestures. Once you have identified positive gestures from the other person, it will become a lot easier to work on creating attraction.
Here are some body language gestures that indicate seduction:
- Touching, fixing, and stroking of hair more often than necessary
- Hands placed on hips
- A sheepish smile
- Crossing the legs and pointing it towards the person of interest
- Sideway glances
- Sitting with legs wide apart
- Slight touches from the other person
- Touching the back of the neck
- Hands on inside the pockets with the thumbs pointed at the groin
- Activities that draw attention to the mouth (licking lips, fingers lightly running over the lips, etc.)
- Seduce someone using only your body?
- Flirt effectively without looking like a slut or jerk?
- Successfully close the opposite sex?

You walk into a room and your eye catches someone beautiful and you think to yourself “I’d like to get to know that woman.” The next step would be to go over where she’s seated and introduce yourself. Not quite. Understanding body language is what you need to do before you approach her.
You cannot afford to miss the obvious flirting body language and signs when a woman flirts with you. Here are some tell-a-tale signs when a girl flirts with you:
1. Playing with her hair: If she moves her hands through her hair repeatedly or moves the hair strands into a lock and lets it fall on her face, casually it is a sign for sure that she is flirting.
2. To charm a girl, make her laugh - it is as simple thing. There are two reasons why a girl will laugh at you when you come up with the stupidest jokes. Either she has a bad sense of humor or she is flirting with you.
3. Eye contact: Eye contact is a sure-shot sign that she is flirting with you. She may just to fit into your group just to make you aware of her presence.
4. Put you on a task: No, she will not make you slog, but she will look for opportunities to enlist your help on some task, no matter how unimportant it may look. When a girl wants to flirt, she will take every small possible chance to touch you, hold your hand or making a pouting gesture if you do not agree with her or pay no attention to her.
5. Online: If she is not able to get in contact with you in the real world, she will ping you online and regularly scrap you on Orkut, Facebook or such social networking sites.
6. Dressing up for you: Have you been out on a date and seen the girl making excuses to 'freshen' up regularly? Do you see her experimenting with her looks, applying fresh makeup and a dab of perfume. This means she is going out of her way to make you notice her.
7. Hand gestures.: If she moves her hand a lot during conversation, it is her way of drawing attention towards her, especially when those hand gestures are not needed.
8. Physical contacts: If a woman flirts with you, she may extent these flirting body language and physical contacts towards you like touching your shoulder, touching your hand, smoothing your hair, straightening your tie or an invisible crease on your shirt or even rubbing her legs against yours.
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